'ssup...

here i am...still no job, and a three day weekend to boot. of course no one's going to be working tomorrow. kinda frustrating. everyone i talk to says, i'll get back to you next monday. too bad i know that they won't be there tomorrow, and when tuesday rolls around...guess what? its not monday...i must have already done that.

so, anyway. we've been trying to make some repairs to the house. i got about 2 boxes of pergo down in the living room, when i put my hand on the wall to support myself, it went through. thats how i foundout we had a leak in the roof, next to the chimney. not even a week later, we noticed the a/c overflow pipe from the soffit constantly draining i figured it was just because of the extra humidity. nope. next day, the paint on the stairwell had bubbles in it, and when i popped one, out gushed the water. i found out the fun way that the a/c drain was clogged with junk. there was a service pipe (to pour in bleach to clean the drain. of course it was uncapped, so all the dust and bugs, etc. from the attic filled the whole thing. now, i'm missing a section of the l/r wall, and another section of the stairwell wall, and i still haven't finished the floor!

it just never ends. i've got a part of the roof fixed, but surveyed the rest of the roof. i found about 5 other sections of facia that are rotting because of pine needles overhanging, and not enough shingle overhang. but i can't clean the roof....more like it i won't. i mean hey, i'm 220lbs. its a 32 year old wood shingle roof, with a single layer of composite shingles on top. i'm not about to climb up there. i'm half-way hoping that the hail storm we had a while back did some damage, and insurance will pay for a new roof. but now isn't the best time to try and pay a deductible.

so in the mean time, i hope i can just keep the place patched up. oh yeah, speaking of patches, did i mention that the stucco on the front of the house has cracked, and now its getting the plywood back board waterlogged? have you seen the movie Moneypit? well i own that house i think.

good luck to you...hope your week goes better!

So this is the thing we call life

i've been working my tail off for who knows how long now. i was going to go ask my boss today when the soonest is i could take some vacation time. i wanted to tell the wife she could take that trip with her mom that she's wanted, w/o having to find a sitter. then around comes 11:00. here comes a coworker and says that the boss wants to take our whole dept to lunch @ noon. at 11:30, i find out that there has been a corporate restructure, at the request of the board, and most of our dept, along with who knows how many others got laid off. no vacation for me.

so, i'm back on the unemployed-hoping-to-be-employed market.

good luck to me.

another week

now i'm not so old-fashioned as to think that a woman's place is pregnant and barefoot, in the kitchen; however, neither am i a women's rights activist. if a woman wants to work...great! BUT, if she has a family, i do feel that rearing her children should be her #1 priority. if my wife wants to work, go ahead, but please be home when the kids get home from school. that's all i ask.. no day care.

so, on that note, here's something fun to look at....maybe only because its interesting to see how our minds change, society-wide, in such a short period of time. or maybe societal pressures change our mind sets for us.

on with the.......

The following is from a 1950's Home Economics textbook intended for high school girls, teaching how to prepare for married life.
1. Have dinner ready -- Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal - on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.

2. Prepare yourself -- Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with alot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.
Clear away the clutter -- Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.

3. Prepare the children -- Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces if they are small, comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

4. Minimize the noise -- At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.

5. Some Don'ts -- Don't greet him with problems or complaints. Don't complain if he's late for dinner. Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.
Make him comfortable -- Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.
Listen to him -- You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.

6.Make the evening his -- Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment; instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to be home and relax.

The goal -- Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can relax.

now that we see whaere we come from, or the mindset of our parents / grandparents, its interesting to look at how we compare, with our current thought patterns.

its sad that we have left some of these behind, but at the same time, the wife / mother is not the slave. lets not treat them that way.

Finally!

the weekend is here. although it might as well be over. long week behind, short end ahead.

i'm spending my saturday working on my car. it was time to change the oil, and the rear brakes were making some awesome noises, and when i slowed down, it felt like i was riding over those wake-up grooves on the side of the highway. so now that i have the oil done, i've spent the last two hours working on the brakes.

i've got 3 bolts off!

now if i could just figure out how to get the 4th off, i'd be able to get the first drum off. i just don't know that its all going to get done before it gets too dark to see. so, now i'm off to search for hints on other discussion threads.

later.